Grateful American by Gary Sinise (2019) – Book Review

MY REVIEW

Hardcover: 272 pages

Publisher: Thomas Nelson (February 12, 2019)

Language: English

ISBN-10: 1400208122

ISBN-13: 978-1400208128

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“New York Times Bestseller: The moving, entertaining, never-before-told story of how one man found his calling: to see that those who defend this country and its freedoms are never forgotten.

"The book is called Grateful American, and I promise you after you read it you will be grateful for what Gary has accomplished and contributed to our country." -- Clint Eastwood

As a kid in suburban Chicago, Gary Sinise was more interested in sports and rock 'n' roll than reading or schoolwork. But when he impulsively auditioned for a school production of West Side Story, he found his purpose--or so it seemed. 

Within a few years Gary and a handful of friends created what became one of the most exciting and important new theater companies in America. From its humble beginnings in a suburban Chicago church basement and eventual move into the city, the Steppenwolf Theatre Company launched a series of groundbreaking productions, igniting Gary's career along with those of John Malkovich, Joan Allen, Gary Cole, Laurie Metcalf, Jeff Perry, John Mahoney, and others.

Television and film came calling soon after, and Gary starred in Of Mice and Men (which he also directed) and The Stand before taking the role that would change his life in unforeseeable ways: Lieutenant Dan in the Academy Award–winning Forrest Gump.

The military community's embrace of the character of the disabled veteran was matched only by the depth of Gary's realization that America's defenders had not received all the honor, respect, and gratitude their sacrifices deserve. In the aftermath of the September 11 attacks, this became Gary's mission. While starring in hits like Apollo 13, Ransom, Truman, George Wallace, CSI:NY, and Criminal Minds: Beyond Borders, Gary has worked tirelessly on behalf of those who serve this country, entertaining more than a half million troops around the world playing bass guitar with his Lt. Dan Band, raising funds on behalf of veterans, and eventually founding the Gary Sinise Foundation with a mission to serve and honor America's defenders, veterans, first responders, their families, and those in need.

Grateful American is the moving, entertaining, profoundly gripping story of how one man found his calling: to see that those who defend this country and its freedoms are never forgotten.”

I was blessed and privileged to be on the book launch team for this book. I received an ARC from the publisher to review. A positive review was not required.

This is my honest and heartfelt review …

“The nation which forgets it defenders will be itself forgotten” – Calvin Coolidge

[So honored to have been chosen to be on the launch team for this inspiring novel in January 2019]

[Back of the book]

Gary Sinise, an Oscar nominated actor for his supporting role as Lt. Dan Taylor in the 1994 blockbuster “Forrest Gump”, has also appeared in other big screen roles such as Apollo 13, Ransom, Reindeer Games, Mission to Mars, and Of Mice and Men which he also directed.

He has also appeared in the TV movie George Wallace for which he won the CableACE Award (best actor), SAG (best actor), and an Emmy (best actor).

His first starring TV role was as Detective Mac Taylor in CSI: New York from 2004-2013. He also starred in Criminal Minds: Beyond Borders.

This book details Gary’s life from his youth in Chicago, to the founding of the Steppenwolf Theater Company, to directing, to acting, his passion and advocacy for those who serve our country, as well as forming the Gary Sinise Foundation. The foundation’s mission is to honor the defenders, veterans, first responders, their families and those in need by creating and supporting unique programs designed to entertain, educate, inspire, strengthen and build communities. (Some text taken from the website).

This isn’t just a book about his life before his acting career; instead this book is a compelling story of how a young man with no goals in his early years stepped up to become a man on a mission – to make a difference in the lives of those who serve us. The sacrifices made, the differences made, the journey along the way.

With sincerity, and sometimes humor-infused story-telling, Gary recounts the events of his youth, his marriage, his children, and his acting career. 

[Talking about the "Big Movie Years"]

He includes the good and not so good sides of his own personal life and marriage. His admiration of his wife through her heart-breaking struggles is refreshing and honest, if not downright inspiring. 

[Documenting a loved one's struggles is difficult and challenging. But, Sinise manages do to do with respect and admiration]

He recounts the military histories of not only his family, but his wife Moira’s own family. It is through these connections, along with his faith, that his dedication to our military and first responders has strengthened.

But, it wasn’t always that way, and he is quick to point that out with honesty and candor along the way.

Gary, the oldest of three children, had a rather turbulent and misdirected youth. Not having a real interest in school work, he did poorly as a student. However after acting in a high school production of “West Side Story”, Gary found his calling as an actor. But, it would be a few decades before he would be able to see success as an actor.

In 1974, Gary, along with two classmates – Terry Kinney and Jeff Perry (Nash Bridges, 1997-2001) founded The Steppenwolf Theater Company.

Despite its success today, the theater didn’t see success right away, at one point it was even broke. Gary details some of the good, bad, and even humorous tales of its origins and productions. He even recounts how an unpopular decision became a turning point in the theater’s success and recognition.

From the theater’s origins in a church basement to its current location on Halsted Road, it has not only launched the careers of several notable actors – John Malkovich, Laurie Metcalf, Gary Cole, Dennis Farina, and others – but it has gone on to produce plays in Chicago, New York, Los Angeles, and London. The company has even won a Tony Award for its presentation of The Grapes of Wrath proving that sometimes an unpopular decision can sometimes work out to an unforeseen advantage and/or success.

Gary moved from the theater to directing films and television shows. Some works include Crime Story, China Beach, and Of Mice and Men, the latter he also starred in and his father edited.

In 1981, Gary Sinise married fellow Steppenwolf performer Moira Harris. They have three children: Sophie (b.1988), Mac (b.1990), and Ella (b.1992). And, as of 2017 – they have a granddaughter (Moira).

But, despite some encouragement from a well known producer, directing isn’t what Gary Sinise wanted to do. He wanted to act.

It wouldn’t be until the 1994 blockbuster Forrest Gump when he’d start gaining recognition as an actor. The role of “Lt. Dan” became more than an Oscar-nominated supporting role though. It resonated with disabled veterans, Vietnam vets, and inspired service members. Lt. Dan’s struggles were not some Hollywood construct – but instead actual struggles. Gary’s positive performance re-ignited recognition of their plight, especially after Vietnam. After being recognized and honored for his portrayal, it inspired Gary to do more to honor our military and thank them for their service.

Instead of walking away from that role and shun the typecasting, he later used it to propel his own mission forward, starting with USO handshake tours, moving up to performing for troops.

But, even after “Forrest Gump”, Gary had other roles – though none as compelling as Lt. Dan. In the midst of personal achievements, there were also personal heartbreaks. Still, he forged ahead in his acting career.

It wasn’t until 9/11 that everything changed and “Lt. Dan” was recalled to active duty. This time he wouldn’t be fighting a war – he’d be providing moral support and encouragement for the troops.

The character’s name eventually became the name of Gary Sinse’s band formed in 2003 (not named until 2004) – the “Lt. Dan Band” had one sole focus – the troops – to entertain them, give them messages of love and support from home, and our gratitude for their tireless efforts. As Gary details in his book, this cover/tribute band was founded solely for the troops and since that time has played more than 400+ shows between domestic military bases to overseas.

This book, while sometimes disjointed in the chronology, is written to educate and entertain – two of the primary goals of his foundation. But, it also serves as an inspiration – a call to duty to champion the cause of our crusaders – military, fire fighters, police, and EMTs. Our real heroes, their challenges – how we as civilians can give back, how we can express our gratitude.

Gary talks about the people he’s met along the way, the challenges they face; how 9/11 re-shaped and forever changed our own mindsets, even his own – and his goal along the way got bigger and bigger. 

[His mission includes children, first responders, and Vets]

His travels to South Korea and the DMZ (Demilitarized Zone) are also heart-wrenching, a stark difference between freedom and tyranny separated by a line. A line many of us will never know.

And, timing has also played a crucial role in Gary’s life.

By taking a TV role on CBS’ CSI: NY, Gary not only found financial stability for his family, but it would allow him to continue his work for the troops. Spoiler – it’s no accident the character Detective Mac Taylor has the same last name as Lt. Dan.

For nine seasons, 2004-2013, while viewers tuned in to see 9/11 family member and former Marine Detective Mac Taylor on CSI: NY, Gary also toured with the USO, and spread messages of support and gratitude . He also, slowly, built the seeds for the foundation, which started in his office on the CBS Studio lot.

[How one man makes a difference]

This is book is not only the story of the origins of an actor, the chairman of a foundation – but one man’s dream, his mission – to make a difference – to make sure our nation’s heroes are never forgotten.

“Freedom is never more than one generation away from extinction. We didn't pass it to our children in the bloodstream. It must be fought for, protected, and handed on for them to do the same.” – Ronald Regan

And, through his work and now this book, Gary makes us aware of how precious that gift is – who we have to thank – and how much more work is needed to be done.

I found myself in tears on more than one occasion, and I do recommend keeping a few tissues handy. I also laughed in certain places. But, this was, as I was telling on my social media accounts while I read it – an inspiring, emotionally engaging, heart-breaking, and compelling read.

Autobiographies and biographies are not my genre – but this is a must read. “Grateful American – From Self to Service” is appropriately titled.

5 ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐/5 ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

[Still on a mission to help people ...]




ABOUT THE AUTHOR

“Gary Sinise is an Oscar-nominated actor and winner of an Emmy, a Golden Globe, and two Screen Actors Guild awards, and has been honored with a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame, all while advocating for America’s veterans for nearly forty years.  For his service work, Gary has been presented with numerous humanitarian awards including the Bob Hope Award for Excellence in Entertainment from the Congressional Medal of Honor Society, the George Catlett Marshall Medal from the Association of the US Army, and the Spirit of Hope Award by the Department of Defense. He was named an honorary Chief Petty Officer by the United States Navy, was pinned as an honorary Marine, and received the Sylvanus Thayer Award at West Point, given to a civilian "whose character, service, and achievements reflect the ideals prized by the U.S. Military Academy." He's also the recipient of the Presidential Citizens Medal, the second-highest civilian honor awarded by the President of the United States to citizens for "exemplary deeds performed in service of the nation.”